In 2011, Khulumani took forward in a more systematic way a series of community dialogues with Khulumani members who are widows. The dialogues revealed that widowed women in South Africa are a very socially marginalised group of women who are subjected to a range of rituals and cultural practices connected to mourning, remarriage, inheritance and their status in the household and society.
In each community where these dialogues on gender discrimination against widows were held, participants shared how their lives and circumstances were deeply impacted by local interpretations of tradition and cultural practices with very limited recourse to justice because Traditional Leaders and Traditional Courts enforced customs.
Heidi Swart in her article published in the Mail & Guardian on 24 February 2012, ‘Harsh customs: Chiefs punish with pecuniary powers’, highlighted that traditional leaders demand payments from widows to perform the customary rituals which are supposed to be part of the duties they perform. They also have power to withhold widowed women’s rights to access customary land without explanation, exposing them to penury, poverty and dependence on others. In rural areas particularly, out-dated customs that are still practiced contribute to the oppression of widows and their associated mental, sexual and reproductive health problems.
Angela points out in her article that women are the primary providers of health in their communities and that health policy needs to pay special attention to the practices that disadvantage widows.
This paper can be downloaded from http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/10130950.2012.700232
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